24:23 Ms. Reed alluded to in the DSM. And you tell me if it's true or not true. Alright, here we go. Running it down. We start with sign number one. The signature characteristics of many personality disorders can be quite unpleasant, such as the case of narcissistic personality disorder. Interacting with an MPD sufferer can be confusing, frustrating, and even hurtful. The MPD individual will often overlook or ignore many of these traits that make them unlikable. Here are nine signs which may be a result of narcissism. One, instead of listening, they're wrapped up in their own opinion. Instead of listening, they're wrapped up in their own opinion. What do you think? Well, I've seen the president in
25:23 When he does like a listening session with people and he'll bring in either companies or individuals, whenever I see him in a big... Now it's usually when he's either about to announce something or wants to announce something. And he does seem to listen, but that's only in those cases. So I don't know. Do you have a... What do you think? I think you're exactly right. It depends on his setting and we noticed this with Trump, depending on his audience, we get a different reaction. So I would say that's true, but not, there's some leeway there. Okay. Depending on his audience. So we get a- That's true. And we get a- This is all wrong. A little bit all wrong.
26:12 Yes, okay. All right. All right. You know what? I'll let you control the signs and we'll just keep rolling. Okay. All right. Here we go with number two. Two. They tend to cheat in relationships. Narcissists feel their treasures that are too good for anyone. Bring this attitude into a relationship and you have lightning waiting to strike. Cheating is often a way for narcissists to build their ego. That's wrong. I think that that in general I think he's very loyal to people. Yes, he's had multiple marriages, but that doesn't necessarily mean that he's a serial cheater. Wow, I think we're all...
27:00 I think we see Trump through two different prisms. Or we're looking at two different people. Well, yeah, obviously. So... Depends on where you see him. But yeah, of course, if I... at face value, yes, he's cheated on He's cheated on at least one wife that we know of. We don't know why he broke up with other ones. And when I say relationships, I'm not talking about just romantic relationships. Right, but I'm... I'm talking about business relationships. You know, you hear the stories about him and contractors. It's like, sue me. So I think that's very true. Yes, you're right. I'm going to give you a... That's true! I'm going to give you a that's true for that one. Okay. All right. Yeah, I'm in on that.
27:46 Let's go to number three. Three, they constantly need to be admired. If you've seen a narcissist, maybe you've seen that they almost swagger, oozing conceit and arrogance with every breath. They may look like they possess tremendous confidence, but it's not enough. They need constant admiration. The delusion of always being entitled to admiration is why people around them often find themselves emotionally drained. To them, there's no greater rush than being put on a pedestal and worshipped by their fans and followers. It's true! That's true. It's true! That's a triple true. No argument on that one. Triple true. Triple true. I think we agree on that. I would say one thing though, they said that the people around them become emotionally drained. I think that's what they call the Trump derangement syndrome.
28:41 that people become just so drained by his personality that it has a negative effect on them. Yeah, I think that's the number one bad trait he has. Even people who like him or are interested in hearing his policy get really tired of his personality. Some people. I think some people like the fact that he's a troll. Yes, but I think that's a smaller number than people who are just like, okay, I don't want to listen to it. Okay, Michael Moore. I don't want to talk a lot between these clips, but Michael Moore said one thing. He said he predicted Trump would win because he said the regular man would see Trump as a big F you to the establishment. For sure.
29:31 For sure. So that's that's that's where I'm coming at with my own. Okay, my angle so continue on. Four. They do not take any criticism well. Have you ever commented on something someone said and they lashed out at you? Maybe the reaction was more hostile than expected. They think they're superior to others around them and believe themselves to be infallible. They react poorly, maybe yelling, throwing a tantrum, or with another unreasonable response when they perceive what you've said might be criticism. Yep, I got that one. Okay. It's not looking too good for him. No, he's looking pretty NPD-ish. Let's go to five. Five. They exploit others without guilt or shame. Narcissism and empathy don't go hand in hand. Narcissists are unwilling to see the world from the perspective of others. As a result, they're able to exploit others without any feeling of remorse.
30:34 They can manipulate people to fulfill their own needs without regard for the consequences that their actions may have on others. It's true! It's true! Definitely true. Definitely true. Anything you'd like to add or you want to continue on? No, we can go to six. Six. They belittle others. The narcissist thinks they're the best and brightest, so seeing proof that dictates otherwise, like someone who is more talented than they are at a particular activity, is a rude shock.
31:10 The response is to make sure that the person is below them where the narcissist feels most others belong They try to be dismissive about the other person to show that they don't really even care about them And if that doesn't work, they resort to personal attacks I think that's birtherism in a nutshell. Yeah, pretty much pretty much Okay, on to seven. Seven. Yes. They see themselves as more attractive than they really are.
31:47 Despite the fact that everyone should feel attractive, there's a fine line between a healthy self-image and being delusional. This line is often crossed by narcissists who believe that they are exceptionally attractive regardless of having any imperfections. The narcissist uses this perceived superior attractiveness to justify to themselves why they're too good for everyone. Oh man. That's true! This is not looking good for 45 Savage right now. Let's go to number eight. Eight. They gaslight those who are dear to them. It's true! Have you ever noticed feeling that you can't remember anything correctly around a specific person? When you're with that person, do you feel a little like you've lost your mind? That's due to gaslighting, a tactic narcissists use in order to manipulate and gain power and control over those around them.
32:45 Gaslighting is frightening because it's insidious. The manipulation is lengthy and gradual, so the victim doesn't notice it happening. Let's ask the ladies. That's true. Yeah, they know exactly what's going on. All right, well, number nine then. It's the last on the list. Nine. They put some people on pedestals. It's true! Our last sign seems oddly contradictory to the other signs, but it is very logical and here's why. Narcissists believe that they have to have perfection in everything, including people they associate with.
33:24 A narcissist will often cozy up to someone higher in status, believing that their perfection will somewhat rub onto them. Oh man, okay. What did we get? We got, I think we got seven definites. We got one split vote and pretty much all true. Okay. Gee, sounds like he's a narcissist, Mo. And I'm not a doctor, you're not a doctor, but maybe Miss Maureen Dowd could chime in on this since she can speak on the classical clinical narcissists.