34:51 Okay, I'm gonna say this. This is the perception of black people of white people concerning Obama Good and the fear of voting good him good. I did not take that at all I've never heard this in my core of whiteness. I don't feel it I'll tell you what it but to me it meant and still means Mm-hmm is The guy doesn't have enough black credibility and needs a little toughening up, a little gangster narrative. So yeah he talks like this but this is really what's going down and quite honestly that's not much different than what Trump says in Trump language Hey little man! Hey rocket man! That's why I rang the bell Luther actually sounds like Trump It's like Obama thinks it and it's okay for him to think
35:42 But you just can't say it. And I think that's why people really have it out for 45 Savage is that he actually said, did you just say 45 savage? Yeah, that's my name for Trump. I've never heard this! You have not introduced this on the show? I have you just catch up... yeah 45 seconds. But seriously this is what i love and this is very interesting Of course there are outliers but in general I don't think they were any white people were all-in man like yeah well there was issues of course and it was narrative and the media
36:23 But to me, this was something actually... To me it made it work for him. I was like yeah! Yeah if you know why don't you talk like that? It was actually kind of my... Can I remember this happening at the time? The angry oh no no no no no no no No, I understand why he can do that but- Last thing you could be in America is an angry black man period. I understand and I'm..I don't want to take away from your flow But it's not just as interesting to me that you and we're generalizing You say black people thought that's what white people thought about the black man, and I'm just saying. I don't think so I don't think there was a majority of people scared about him being an angry black man I think they were scared of other things which we didn't which were unknown? You know his real background you got this
37:17 fuzziness of the birth certificate, is he a Muslim? You know there was a lot of shit being thrown in the air. Angry black man not one of the memes I remember that's all doesn't mean it's just as good. That's the undercurrent of being a Marxist that's the undercurrent of being maybe a sleeper cell terrorist you know he's fueled by some kind of anger That's what I'm saying. Okay, and let me... Yeah no, I'm with that. Because like we're saying the anger manifests itself as he wants to destroy America or he's the Antichrist! Or all these things are going on out here. All of that is true, of course It's deep-seated in that anger And lemme say this because we never broached it before
38:09 Before the angry black man black men have to be self-conscious of how we're perceived not to come off as angry and this is a real thing because Just say if I'm somewhere and at work or somewhere, and I have a scowl on my face from thinking like when I'm in thought. Yeah. A scowl? People come to you saying are you alright? Everything alright? It's like what do you mean is everything alright?! That's a real phenomenon and it has to be talked about. And this is why people say, oh wow black men are so docile. It's cause like if I raise my voice you'll say like I'm gonna go crazy! Well and that fears me. It really scares people. You have to be... I had an experience a couple months ago was during the lockdown
39:09 And I just come out of the grocery store and I drive into this very busy intersection. But, of course it's Rona lockdown so there are not a lot of cars...there are cars! So I got a full green light. So i'm just moving and there is this guy who starts crossing the road Look sees me and does one of those slow crosses. So he's crossing on red, you know And it's just really slow now he looked he was he was dark-skinned I He could have been Didn't look homeless look more grifter II but doesn't really matter and you know so I just slowed down and the guys just slept You know, I'm like and so I tapped the horn beep beep
39:55 And the guy goes into a rage and yelling, you know, angry black man. And for me this is the reason why I wouldn't have brought it up otherwise but... I felt so comfortable. It didn't scare me at all! And, and I think the show has influenced me...I'm like, oh alright man you go ahead you wave your arms all you want but I could see the other motorists because I stopped and opened my window and said hey man just chill out bro just follow the rules we've got to do it but I didn't feel scared AT ALL which is new for me because i am sure that would have been in the past
40:33 And just to wrap this up, this is what in black people's mind especially black men the appearing as an angry black man is really what heightens the fear between cops and Black men because it's like you coming into the situation that why you can have one cop. That's cool He's like hey bro, right? Right, and then the next cop comes over like do You know what the difference is between those cops I have no idea. The one cop has done the work No, you exactly right it's really true It's just not the work that Robin D'Angelo is serving up Yeah, but if you have experience with dealing with this cultural, it's like You know um yeah understand very cultural I think that there is a topic for the future we might want to expand on because that's really good one And its and its meta its meta across everything