Topic: Social Norms

4 chapters across the catalog

78: Hiding in the Fuzz
2:26:50 - 2:29:04

78: Hiding in the Fuzz

Mask Mandates and the Unaware Life

Adam Curry shares an anecdote about walking into a Whole Foods in Austin without a mask to test social reactions. He describes the experience as "weird" and notes the silent solidarity he felt with other maskless individuals. The hosts discuss the concept of "living unaware" versus the modern pressure to be constantly self-conscious of how one is perceived by others.

75: What U Gonna Do Cuzz
6:06 - 10:36

75: What U Gonna Do Cuzz

Angry Black Man Trope, Social Expectations and Self-Censorship

The discussion examines the "angry black man" trope and the social pressures that discourage Black men from expressing frustration or anger. Mo Facts explains how Black male anger is often perceived as a threat, leading to a habit of self-censorship to avoid being labeled as dangerous or unstable. The hosts contrast the historical public perceptions of Martin Luther King Jr.'s composure versus Malcolm X's perceived militancy.

74: Silly Mode
1:45:23 - 1:49:33

74: Silly Mode

Karen Archetype, Social Enforcement Profiles

The "Karen" meme is deconstructed as a modern iteration of a historical psychological profile: the individual who alerts the system when social norms are violated. Tracing the term back to Kate Gosselin in 2014, the discussion explains how this archetype now enforces "Vax laws" and mask mandates. The "Karen" behavior is framed as a manifestation of paranoia and mind control, where the individual feels a compulsive need to have the system punish non-conformists.

06: Meet The Parents
28:01 - 30:29

06: Meet The Parents

Madame Noir Panel and the Lack of Family Planning

A 2018 panel discussion from the website Madame Noir reveals a mindset among some black women that "no one plans" to be a mother. The hosts express concern that this lack of intentionality is accepted as a norm despite the high rate of single-parent households in the community. They question why there is no pushback against the idea that parenthood is merely an unplanned event.