Topic: Shaming

10 chapters across the catalog

83: Sources and Methods
1:46:21 - 1:50:35

83: Sources and Methods

Andrew Gillum's Recovery and Coded Language

Andrew Gillum discusses his recovery from "shame" and the trauma of having his most vulnerable moments publicized. He uses coded language to describe the hotel incident, suggesting he was "broken down" and did not recognize the person in the leaked photos. The hosts analyze this as a sophisticated damage control effort designed to maintain his viability within the Democratic Party's ideological framework.

82: High Value Target
2:52:52 - 2:59:25

82: High Value Target

Howard Stern's Double Standard on Misogyny

The hosts compare Kevin Samuels' "harsh" critiques to Howard Stern's vitriolic attacks on Wendy Williams, where he used extreme profanity and gendered slurs. They point out that while Samuels is labeled a misogynist, Stern remains a "Hollywood insider" with protected status. The segment highlights the hypocrisy of media figures who "clap back" at critics with far more aggression than Samuels ever displayed.

75: What U Gonna Do Cuzz
53:41 - 57:41

75: What U Gonna Do Cuzz

Emotional Vocabulary, Identity and Vocational Shame

The hosts emphasize the importance of developing a vocabulary for emotions like helplessness, frustration, and shame. Mo Facts discusses the "middle game" of life at age 41 and the shame associated with losing a career that has become central to one's identity. He notes the difficulty of admitting unemployment to family members due to the social expectation of being a provider.

75: What U Gonna Do Cuzz
1:31:16 - 1:35:33

75: What U Gonna Do Cuzz

The Family, Doug Coe and Internalized Shame

A clip from "The Family" documentary features a discussion on how shame keeps individuals locked in their circumstances and leads to external blaming. Mo Facts reflects on his own role in becoming dependent on a corporation and the need for self-reflection. He encourages listeners to channel their anger into constructive outlets rather than allowing it to fester in isolation.

63: We Are People 1
3:52:42 - 3:58:09

63: We Are People 1

Radio Influence and the Stain of Sex Work

The hosts discuss how free radio in the Black community pumps explicit messages to children without context. They argue that sex work leaves a "stain" or "scent" that society never truly forgives, citing the shaming of Melania Trump as an example. The segment explores the mental health issues and "dissociation" required to survive a life on the streets.

61: Mark My Words
16:55 - 22:15

61: Mark My Words

Personal Stance, Vaccine Skepticism, Social Shaming

One of the hosts declares a personal stance against taking the COVID-19 vaccine, citing concerns about the technology and the pressure to conform. They compare vaccine polling to the "hidden" support seen for Donald Trump, suggesting many people may publicly agree to vaccinate while privately refusing. The conversation explores the social shaming of "vax free riders" and the emotional manipulation used to encourage participation.

61: Mark My Words
45:46 - 50:42

61: Mark My Words

Karen Meme, SIGN Language, Kevin Samuels

The "Karen" meme is defined as a label for entitled or demanding women, with the hosts introducing the acronym "SIGN" (Shame, Insult, Guilt, Need to be right). Attributed to YouTube creator Kevin Samuels, SIGN language is described as the primary tactic used by "Karens" and media figures to manipulate public opinion. A throwback clip from the show *Black-ish* is used to illustrate these tactics in a vaccine debate.

53: 2020 Vision
3:20:43 - 3:25:49

53: 2020 Vision

Maxine Waters' "Unconscionable" Warning to Black Men

Congresswoman Maxine Waters attacks Black men who support Trump, calling them "crazy" and claiming they don't know how to put together government proposals. The hosts describe her comments as "super insulting" and "unconscionable," noting that she has been in office for 35 years with little to show for it.

21: You're the Father
1:43:35 - 1:48:03

21: You're the Father

Shaming Stay-at-Home Mothers and the Power of Women

The discussion covers the elevation of black women in politics and activism (such as Black Lives Matter) as a means to diminish the role of black men. The hosts criticize the modern shaming of stay-at-home mothers, arguing that "the hand that rocks the cradle rules the world." They suggest that women hold immense power in society through what they teach their sons and who they choose as partners.

12: White Guilt
34:27 - 37:35

12: White Guilt

Civil Rights Legislation and the Mirror of Television

Shelby Steele describes the 1964 Civil Rights Act and 1965 Voting Rights Act as moments where America morally came to terms with its past. The hosts argue that this "national reflection" was actually driven by the advent of television. They posit that seeing violent images of segregation on screen created a sense of public shame and guilt that forced legislative change.